Don't do it again b/c you will think about it for the rest of your life. I had two. One at 25 years of age and one at 27years of age. I am now 55 years old and I think about it daily. God bless you...What kind of advice can you give a person who recently had an abortion?
there is so much you're leaving out. are you trying to help someone through the emotional heartbreak of having one? or are you suffering from it? an abortion is a very hard decision to make no matter what the situation. it's probably something that person is going to be dealing with their whole life.... especially if they go on to have children later in life. i have a friend whose father forced her to have one when she was 15, and she's almost 27 now and still deals with it, even though she has had three little ones since then. if this person isn't you, the best thing you can do is be a shoulder for them. be supportive and gentle with them. let them know that eventually it will get better, even if it doesn't go away all the way. good luck
you just made a major sin!!!
to grieve, do not hold all the feelings inside you. You did what you thought you needed to do, and you aren't a bad person for doing it. Get counseling if you feel you aren't getting better; it will take a while to get thru the grieving process.
If they are feeling guilty - you can let them know that despite the fact that it was wrong - it is normal to feel guilty - because she has a conscious. She should learn from this experience and make sure that she does not ever put herself in the same situation and if she does, abortion is not the way out. Also, she needs to ask God for forgiveness and really show him that she regrets what she has done. There is no point in stressing things because one cannot turn back the hands of time, but what we can do, is make sure that you learn from these bad experiences - it is like a death of a loved one, time will cure the pain and assure her that it is okay to cry and feel sad.
don't beat your self up you did what you thought was best for your situation time does heal i had one 9 years ago at 17 i do think about it and some times it makes me sad but then i think i would be the person i am now if i got tied down that young obviously don't know why you did it but i did it cause i was in an abusive relationship. everyone has there reasons obviously your gonna feel guilt go with it grieve be sad, cry do what comes natural but eventually you'll pick your self up and get on with life. don't let people judge you no one can truly understand what your going through as everyone is diff but good luck for the future and i hope the rest of your life is happy. remember you did it for your reasons and that is good enough don't hate yourself
Please practice safe sex or abstain. I hope the abortion was used as a form of birth control. Don't be so reckless.
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