I feel like I can give all the advice to people,
but when I'm faced with difficult situations- I feel lost.
Do you ever feel like this?SERIOUS QUESTION: Have you ever felt like you can give everybody advice, but you can't fix your own?
yea i have i can never answer my own prombles :( but i just learn to deal with that and start askin my friendsSERIOUS QUESTION: Have you ever felt like you can give everybody advice, but you can't fix your own?
i think everyone who uses yahoo answers has this problem
It is natural to wish to help others but when we aren't willing to allow friends to fulfill their needs in expressing the same towards us, it's time for a self-examination. People who don't share their, deeply felt, convictions or problems with friends may have a control (of others) issue or are fearful of exposing what they believe to be a character flaw and/or weakness in themselves. The question you asked is one you should ask of your friends (one is never too old to have 2 or 3 friends to a ';pajama party';).
YES! All the time. People tend to come with me with their problems because I will generously listen and offer up with my support and advice. However, I don't always feel I get the same in return. I need a shoulder to cry on sometimes too, but don't always find that I get it as often as I give it.
No offense, but does anyone else feel like this warrants a big, fat, DUH?
People always forget that we're exactly the same at the core.
I always feel like this! It's hard to look at your own problems objectively, because you're already personally involved. It's normal!
i think that is normal. we are programed to go outside of ourselves to get solutions. we are programed to think first not feel first. when you are in a situation be aware of the feeling you have ..take lost deeper, break the lost feeling down. relax that is a must a thought for a feeling a feeling for a thought . you first . your needs come first not others .if you are not loyal to yourself then it's hard to be loyal to anyone else. Advice can be lethal. .feel think act
At least i know how to analyze , and know whats right from wrong.
I think people in this site who gave advice , are mostly smart , and very sensitive , kind hearted , firm to decisions , and God fearing.
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