What advice could u have used when you started dating - that u ended up learning through experience instead?

In life, you have to be happy, not settle. Alot of women got this common mistake. They always think that the ';destination'; is important to them (though some nvr admit it) but you still have to enjoy through the ride cause it's the journey that makes life meaningful.





Dating doesn't mean you need to end up in a relationship, it's about knowing your partner well but maintaining part of what you still yet to know. Relationship is not about having to get married. It's about how you can pull through the thick and thins with your partner. Marriage is about ';surviving'; because you know you can count on your partner no matter what by treasurin each other and reminding yourself that you have come this far.





People never truely experience what they actually need, they just wanted it because everyone's having it and that's why they ended up getting hurt and shifting the blame on others.What advice could u have used when you started dating - that u ended up learning through experience instead?
dont let him know you are totally into him.





l let him know and l was walked on anyhow.


it will never repeat itselfWhat advice could u have used when you started dating - that u ended up learning through experience instead?
mmmm... let me think... i was a jealousy girl, my boyfriend had many friends and those where girls, so they hug him and stuff , we had so many problems because of that, now i know that wasnt confident with myself, i thought i was less than other girls,... but not anymore i changed, i believe in myself and have confidense, i know who i am... so i think i learned something from that relationship.





so girls, dont be jealous, if a guy loves you will be with you, other girls dont matter.... you are the girlfriend........the main girl in his life...
If you like somebody, then tell that person. Do not let all your friends or all his friends know before he does. Letting others know is giving them an invite into you and the guys potential relationship. They will always know what is happening with you two whether you want them to or not.
Take everything the guy tells you with a grain of salt.


Not everything he tells you will come about and he does not mean everything he says.
A selfish jerk is a selfish jerk. He won't change and there's no reason to make excuses for his behavior.





Don't settle for anything less than everything.
LISTEN - thats the best thing you can ever do... communication is the most important part of any relationship.. a lot of times our partner says something and we blow them off because we've heard them say it so many times... but what we are missing when we do that is the chance to listen.. the chance to HEAR what is really bothering them and doing something to try and fix it!... if you HEAR it time after time.. LISTEN.. and do something to fix it so you dont have to hear it any more.. after all.. they're saying it for a reason.. :)
This is a wise question.


What I've learned in the 7 months w/my bf.....


Love everyday. You'll most likely get hurt, but it's so worth it.
forget and forgive
Unfortunately the learning experience comes too late for some and too early for others to understand its' full capacity.





Without falling one can not know what step broke.





Aldo R.