Thursday, December 31, 2009

Im running Away, and you cant change my mind about it, i just want a little advice,?

I Got in to alot of trouble @ skl, and now my partents are all over my i feel crowded and traped, so im leaving, its my fault and i know that, but i can even face them any more, im 15 an di live in high wycombe, i just need some helpIm running Away, and you cant change my mind about it, i just want a little advice,?
Running away won't solve your problems with your parents, and will actually lead to whole batch of new problems. You say that you got in trouble at school and now your parents are on your case. What did you do at school to cause the problem? Are you parents putting you under curfew now and implementing stricter rules? If yes, then just deal with it. In three years you can move out and live with your own set of rules. But you say that your mind is made up and that you are going to run away. Do you know where you are going to run away to? A friends house of a family members? Will they get in trouble with the law if they take you in? What if you stay in the streets? What will you do for money for food and shelter?





Honestly, why would you want to put your parents through the heartache of not knowing where their child is? Just talk to your parents about how you feel...maybe start seeing a counselor...don't run away though. Thats just childish.Im running Away, and you cant change my mind about it, i just want a little advice,?
I have no idea where high wycombe is so i can not say what your options are in your area. but seriously you are taking school too seriously if you think that your parents care more about your getting in trouble at school than you leaving their house to live on your own with no preparation beforehand. they want you too succeed and leaving home with nowhere to live and trying to make it on your own it very very tough. if you really want to leave home take a bit more time to plan. right now it sucks but it will pass.try to keep perspective. think about your future goals and how best to obtain them and make decisions based on whether what you do now is helping you or hurting you in obtaining those goals.
Don't do it, you r just gona create more and more problems for you and your family. you gona miss up your live big time. JUST BE A MAN AND FACE YOUR PROBLEM AND DON'T BE A LITTEL GIRL ABOUT IT. everyone makes mistakes, we are all human. Nobody is perfect trust me even your parents make mistakes and get in trouble sometimes, but you got to be a MAN and face it, fix it and learn from so it doesn't happen to you next time. I am sure you have make your parents suffer about this a lot, but if you run away they will suffer even more. I know it is hard for you to change your mind but trust me if you run a way from home right now in this bad economy you gona have a horriable life or end up dead eventually cuse right now there is no way you can find a job or make a decent living for youself while you are 15. so please GRow UPPPPPPP AND deal with the problem and face it. i am sure your parents will understand and help you if you talk to them..





Good luck to you
Think about this, I know you said your mind can't be changed but where will you go? Do you really want to be homeless on the cold streets with nowhere to go, no food and no shelter and no money? It's a tough, cruel lifestyle.





It isn't your fault, so you got in trouble at school. It's not too late to move schools or even fix the problem. Maybe you can stay with a friend for a few days and then write your parents a letter explaining how you feel. Also try and see your GP and they might be able to help you out. Call the Runaway Helpline for free on 0808 800 70 70 or text them on 80234 or email runaway@missingpeople.org.uk and explain that you want to runaway and they can give you some advice.
im 16 and i have ran away its not fun but i know wht u mean what i did was i just went to a hole other city and i had money i stayed in a hotelmi was thinking about saying away so i looked for a job and verything i was gone for almost 2 monthes and i was doing good but your going to need you family so what i would d is go way but not forever just some time to clear you head
i understand..bcoz i did the same in my late 14's and never looked back..now i am 22 and fine.:)


but what advice do u need?


what have u sorted and not sorted?





p.s e mail me bcoz ppl on here will just judge..
Whats the question? And running away doesnt solve any problems, it just makes everything alot lot worse, trust me i know.
I think the best thing you can do is run and not look back. Try and forget this life and start a new one. You screwed up bad
Grow up. Running away has never solved anything. If you did something wrong face it, take the hit and grow from it.
why run away from the problem, it doesnt solve it

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