Unfortunately I don't think people look here until it's too late. Look at the questions - it's the same thing over and over. ';My husband had an affair.'; ';Can you be friends with a person of the opposite sex.'; ';What do I do to make her change.'; ';How do I tell our kids we're getting divorced.';
I believe the answers here probably do not help the person asking. However I do believe the responders are learning a lot by reading each others answers.How many of you actually take the advice you receive here and implement it in your marriage?
This is an awesome question as it really makes you think about the time you spend on this forum. I am on bed rest right now and feel that this forum is one of the only ways I can get in adult (mostly) communications throughout the day. Many of the posts I read are informative and interesting. Some are really helpful. Additionally, if you are someone who is truly concerned about offering helpful advice, writing these posts also serves to reinforce those positive behaviors in one's own marriage.
How many of you actually take the advice you receive here and implement it in your marriage?
Honestly, I have gotten some really mature and helpful advice from here that I have actually implemented into my relationship. It's not everytime you can ask a question and get deep thoughtful answers, but I have on occasions and try to give deep and thought answers when I answer other people questions because I always feel appreciative when someone takes that sort of time for me. ;]
Have taken some of it, theres a girl on here who yesterday really criticised the **** out of me in two answers and a ton of private messages.
I was called a number of things by her even though I'm the victim and am looking into divorcing that no good abusive husband of mine.
So I can be happy for once in my life.
One thing that Yahoo!answers has taught me is that no experience is new to anyone be it good or bad - The experience may not be identical but just a different flavor. I have found solutions to some problems I have in regards to life in general and to some extent in my marriage.
some of the gift idea's and stuff along that nature have been good ones. Someone suggested going on a cruise once and my husband and I went and had a great time.
I try to implement the good advice, but sometimes the words of advice I receive on here are much easier said than done.
Just some . I never follow any advices no matter where or whom i got it from without making sure it is the right one for me .
Some of the answers I've gotten have been really good. It's also amazing to read all the pessimistic answers.
Mostly I just am stirring the pot.
I take on the advice that I think suits me..... but then I haven't asked any serious life changing questions either!
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