im going to high school soon and im totally nervous.
my best friend is going to be at a different school and im going to have like no friends. im going to be totally lost and i really want to start over because middle school has kinds sucked. i want to stop having a reputation as ';that shy girl';. i want high school to be amazing and i want to be really out going but idk how. any advice? or anything you wish you did to make high school better?Can you give me some high school advice?
I learned after high school that it would have be soooo much easier if I had just chilled out, stopped thinking about myself and what others thought, and just relaxed. The usual ';be yourself'; advice basically. Just chill out and be yourself. Some people may not like you. Just don't bother caring. Only concern yourself with being calm and true to yourself. Best and LEAST stressful way to you. And you'll make some great friends!Can you give me some high school advice?
I'm a junior and hating high school, haha. I thought it was going to be awesome but it really hasn't been, oh well. I would definitely try to get over that whole shy side. Most of the people I know that enjoy high school are really outgoing. I'm not shy, but I'm not the most outgoing person in the world either. I wish I had socialized more Freshman and Sophomore year, it feels like I'm making up for lost ground now.
On the plus side you really can just about start over in high school. Unfortunately from what I've seen after a year or two max you're pretty much set in place as to how your time in high school is going to end up. High school goes by pretty quick, I can't believe my Junior year is almost over already. Just try to enjoy it.
In the mean time I'll be waiting for college (happily).
During the first week introduce yourself to ask much people as you can. Extend your hand, smile, and introduce yourself. It will be a lot harder after the first couple weeks to meet new people. Don't forget to smile when you make eye contact with people. Don't look at the ground when you walk around in the halls. Look friendly and approachable. Just talk to people. Talk about classes. Ask what classes other have. Play sports. Join organizations. You need to talk to people. Carry around gum. Offer it to people for an ice breaker. Have fun and talk to people. They want to meet you just as badly as they want to meet you.
omgg ur just like me im in 8th grade .. and goin to highschool next year ( hopefully ) %26amp; ppl always see me as the ' quiet shy girl ' or w.e but obvioslyy they dont knw me enuff likem that becausee im not really like that around my closest friends .. but anyways yeaa i do want highschool to be differentt and stuff .. and i already know alot of ppl gunna be changinn %26amp; some of my friends or yourss may not talk to u cuhs thats jus how girls are .. they can be fony somtimes ... but yeaa only thing i can tell u is jus try to make new friends next year because thats wat ill do or sumthin idk . gud luck = )
most people feel nervous before going to secondary school, it just normal. as for the shy part, ive been trying for ages not to be shy, if you ever find out how, let me know :P i guess all we gotta do is ditch our natural instincts and just against them lolz. gl, should be fun
I would tell you is study alot, do all your homework, do all your assignments. You want to think about what college you want to go.
highschool in America sucks unless you go to a good one...8 hrs per day and it feels like jail....I was an A student but I wasted four years of my life....college is way better....thumbs up any one who agrees
you should just be ur self thats what people like best!
good luck! :)
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