Friday, January 8, 2010

What advice would you give to a grown up who doesn't know what he wants to be when he grows up?

He's not a loser or anything, he has a job and a family life, but isn't committed to any one career. Do you think it's ok to be that way? What would you do?





Feel free to star if you find this interesting! =DWhat advice would you give to a grown up who doesn't know what he wants to be when he grows up?
I'm a grown up who can't commit to a career...because I know I'm not where I should be yet, or maybe I'm just a drifter...I don't think its a bad thing...maybe we see things different, some people enjoy the security of a job for life...me personally HORRIFIED BY THE THOUGHT!!What advice would you give to a grown up who doesn't know what he wants to be when he grows up?
';Take it easy';


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I'd tell him to get his sh*t together and act like an adult. I think that since he has a family, he should set a good example. I'd tell him what I think only if the conversation came up.

Need Advice About Friendship And Relationships. Girls you should know what I mean!?

Me and my bff have been friends FOREVER! We both are almost in love with the same person. We told each other and we are fine but we told the guy and he freaked out and said he loved my friend. He has me crying every night now. What do I do?Need Advice About Friendship And Relationships. Girls you should know what I mean!?
i'm sorry. if i was your friend, i wouldn't go out with the guy because that's not fair. it really stinks when this happens, but it's okay, you'll get through it. hopefully your friend values your friendship enough to choose you over the guy.Need Advice About Friendship And Relationships. Girls you should know what I mean!?
Sweetie, there's not much to do, time heals all wounds, just go spoil yourself by eating a lot, taking a nice buble bath, write down all the great things about you and how you are better for someone else. Go plan a day with the girls. Good luck, may love find you.
If he likes her, there's nothing you can do..but be a good friend to her and let her have him. You'd want her to do the same for you if he liked you. Find a new crush.
are they together now?!?


Walk away....hang out with all your other grlfriends for now.


Especially if you wanna remain friends with that girl, in the future.
If you love her as a friend, let her have him...
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  • Do you have any post neutering doggy care advice ,Thank you!!?

    My recently adopted one year old beagle/basset is getting fixed on Sat. Could you please share advice/stories on what to expect and make the lil guy more comfortable, Thanks in advance for your response.Do you have any post neutering doggy care advice ,Thank you!!?
    Neutering a male isn't nearly as big a deal as spaying a female. The vet's office will give you very detailed after-surgery care info when you pick him up.





    Basically, the site needs to be kept very clean and totally dry until the stitches come out. If he's got external stitches, the vet needs to supply you with an elizabethan collar that you need to keep on him whenever you can't watch him to prevent him from tearing out the stitches and needing anesthetic again to re-suture.





    He needs to be kept a little quiet while he's healing. And when you get him home, he'll still be feeling the anesthetic and will want to sleep. He also won't want to eat that day because the anesthetic would most likely make him vomit. Try to get him to drink sometime before the end of the day.Do you have any post neutering doggy care advice ,Thank you!!?
    Castration is NOT a big deal!


    It'll be drunk-ish when it gets home,does NOT need analgesics,does NOT need a stupid elizabethan collar....


    The GIGANTIC one inch incision will be healed in 24 hrs.


    Stop freaking out.
    No rough play or exercise for a week or so, keep him from bothering the incision site, keep him clean and out of the dirt. Check the site daily for infection and then chill. Cause too much bother with the surgery site might upset the dog. If he messes with the site he may require an e-collar for his safety, since some dog will mutilate themselves if left to their own devices. But that is very rare.
    make sure you ask for some kind of pain medication to give once he gets home should he need it.
    Keep him as quiet as possible, leash walk him only, don't let him just take off running in the yard. Try to discourage him from jumping up and down off furniture and do not let him excessively lick/chew at his incision. If he does start to lick at it you may need to invest in an e-collar so that he cannot reach it. Do not bathe him for 10 days or until his incision is healed. Ask your veterinarian to send you home with some medication for pain and inflammation and keep him as comfy and quiet as possible for the next 10-14 days.
    Try not to laugh when you see him in that big thing that they send him home with, - it will look like a big lampshade around his neck !! Other than that , he'll be fine. The vet will let you know what to do, just don't let him mess with the stitches. :-)
    I have an article for you on neutering and what to expect.





    For my guy he had invasive surgery b/c one of his testicles didn't drop so they had to go looking for it. He recovered great. You just need to keep them quiet for a few days.





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    I'm a generous person, how would you advice a person that is taking advantage of you with something?

    If he is getting happiness by that , then I am the one who has the advantage in fact .So I will advice him to get more happiness . Making others happy is the most happiest thing that can happen to anyone .I'm a generous person, how would you advice a person that is taking advantage of you with something?
    drop the user completely - just sack them off





    i'm like you - you get to get everything with me - until you a point where i realise you are not going to stop abusing the fact that you know you can get everything by taking everything rather than what you need.





    everyone starts with my respect but once my respect is gone my respect is gone and so are you. I'm a generous person, how would you advice a person that is taking advantage of you with something?
    Say no if your being taking advantage of more-less, if you are being abused because we all take advantage of opportunities. Being taken as kindness for weakness is another subject all together. This still implies the word no. Because some people don't know any better. So you must set them straight on this matter.
    If it's money tell them you don't have access to it anymore becuse you're parents are controlling your finances for you now because you're trying to save.. or your bank is filtering off your spare cash into savings that you can only take out if you physically walk into the bank and have to wait 7 days for them to release it. something like that...





    if it's something else, you need to say because its hard to answer that question without knowin what it is they're taking advantage of...
    Create rules for yourself. Such as how much you give out, what you give out, to whom, and for how long.





    For instance, I like giving massages to my girlfriend. If she asks for a massage every now and then, I have no problem giving her one. However, if the first thing she says to me when I walk into her apartment is ';Can you give me a massage?';, or if she annoys me to give her one, I refuse. You should try and use your generousity to encourage other people to be more giving, but if they just end up demanding more from you, you need to remand them that they're not being fair to you.





    So you need to make rules.





    Decide for yourself how much you're willing to give, how much others deserve, and at what point you're being used. Draw a line in the sand (so to speak) and don't let anyone cross it.
    Real simple , speak your mind to the person you think is taking advantage of you , always in a polite manner. Explain your grievance and if that does not work , stop being generous with that person. Good luck to you.

    What advice would you give to a soon to be accountant?

    i want to become an accountant and i dont really know, so please help meWhat advice would you give to a soon to be accountant?
    I work in Federal Government contracts supporting IT and Financial System upgrades, and when the large Accounting firms and major IT giants bid they will bring a team in headed by a partner and then some team members have CPAs, others have Acctg Info Systems etc where it does NOT hurt one to have both and in fact it makes you more marketable.





    My background is Finance %26amp; Procurement/Contracts whereas our oldest son was BS Accounting. He started as Cost Accountant then I sent him to IT Transition University Program where he was youngest, others had PhD in ADA. He worked one day for KPMG (what he always wanted) but major IT contractor made him offer couldn't refuse. I too put CARROT$ in front of him and he passed CPA on 2 tries (3 parts 1st attempt), then they Contractor sent him to ORACLE training and he sat and passed certification to become ORACLE CERTIFIED DEVELOPER, then went to BORDERS and passed SUN JAVA certification on his own %26lt;= He claims both are worth more than his CPA and was right bec off to Europe he went and was only 28 leading a team of developers who graduated from Oxford and Cambridge at BARCLAYS INVESTMENT...Today he is self employed JAVA Guru at 31 for French Investment Banker building investment models for on-line traders...Son's success is actually his determination and perservance and what we were most happy about was he met girl of his dreams!

    Who do you think gives you the best advice on answers...?

    I have a few people in mind but right now, I need Bradley P to check his email.Who do you think gives you the best advice on answers...?
    I doWho do you think gives you the best advice on answers...?
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    My imaginary talking burrito.
    I think its me,but i play around on here too much lol
    Well I do honey, everyone knows that
    ME!
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    What advice would you give to someone who is considering moving to Alaska?

    I am in Florida now.What advice would you give to someone who is considering moving to Alaska?
    Thats a big change. Prepare for new friend and infrequent mail from old friends. You wont get many visitorsWhat advice would you give to someone who is considering moving to Alaska?
    watch this movie


    ';Into the wild'; its about a guy who hates everything and moves to Alaska to find his inner self and his corealtion with the nature


    this movie can save your life
    well get ready for a major change the price of living is much higher and gets very cold in the winter
    Well atleast no hurricanes
    think again then decide not to
    Buy an expensive heater.
    I would say right on, do it sister! When you get there drop me a line and tell me all about it. Make sure you bring lots of warm clothes and someone to snuggle with.
    bring shorts
    Hell no!!!! Dont do it!!!!!!!


    Florida: Rains everyday, Warm %26amp; Humid


    Alaska: Cold, Cold, Cold





    why dont you try moving to Kentucky instead...
    Bring a jacket





    brrrrr
    Stay warm!





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    there is nothing that would get me to move from florida to alaska-- nothing at all- not money not love not- well there is nothing else but money and love. your nuts!!!! move to alaska. hope you like the cold and the screwed up daytime nightime crap.what could possibly make you want to move to the end of the world
    bring a coat!


    and some snow boots...................burr
    Oh. I would get one of those dog sleds and a pack of rowdy but loving huskies!
    get some warm clothes and a hat.
    make sure u have plenty of nanucky
    learn to build an igloo!
    buy more winter jackets and gloves, boots.
    Buy a coat
    Bring a sweater. ;)


    Maybe a few million cans of soup you can warm up.

    What advice did your parent[s] give to you at that you did not believe then, but know now?

    I am only 16 but my mom used to tell me things all the things all the time that I did not believe at the time but she always ended up being right in the end.What advice did your parent[s] give to you at that you did not believe then, but know now?
    that it's hard to live on your own. it's not really hard but you have a lot of responsibility that you didn't have before.What advice did your parent[s] give to you at that you did not believe then, but know now?
    I should have listened to my parents!!!!!!!!!!!!!! They have seen almost everything that you will ever see, and been in the same situations. I would trust them more then anyone. They know you and know what is best for you. I wished I would have done more listening to them and less time trying to grow up!!!
    My mom use to tell me the knuckleheads i used to go out with weren't good enough for me, but I didn't listen. If I would have it would of saved me years of heartache. Although my mom has past over 6 years ago, I never forgot her advice. Now I am engaged to the man of my dreams, and is currently planning my wedding celebrating.
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  • What degree do you need for an Advice Columnist?

    A degree in Psychology would help. Besides, you will need to be good in writing.What degree do you need for an Advice Columnist?
    If that is your passion journalism and maybe a minor in psycology or sociiology because in most of the advice colomuns people are asking for opinion on social issues or how they feel about something and sociology deals with how people are in society and psycology deals with a single person and how they feel etc. What I would do is look at your local newspaper and see what kind of questions people are asking and see at your school of choice what kind of majors they offer and try to line up what you want. But counslers and advisors at colleges are always knowledgable on what cources can benefit in a profession of choice. Good Luck!What degree do you need for an Advice Columnist?
    I think you have to have some sort of English or Journalism major to do any work with public publications.
    a level 12 from yahoo answers
    While there is no specific degree for this, you might give yourself an edge getting hired by a newpaper by getting some credentials that will help you establish yourself as someone that can either communicate well or is an expert in a field... (English degree, communications, psychology, sociology, etc.)





    Dan Savage, for example, has little to no formal training and yet is one of the top syndicated advice columnists in the country.
    Perhaps journalism. But if company wanted you just because you give good advice, probably none.
    I dont think its necessary to have any at all, but it couldnt hurt to have a degree in social work or psychology.
    Probably a degree in communications

    Can you give me some high school advice?

    im going to high school soon and im totally nervous.


    my best friend is going to be at a different school and im going to have like no friends. im going to be totally lost and i really want to start over because middle school has kinds sucked. i want to stop having a reputation as ';that shy girl';. i want high school to be amazing and i want to be really out going but idk how. any advice? or anything you wish you did to make high school better?Can you give me some high school advice?
    I learned after high school that it would have be soooo much easier if I had just chilled out, stopped thinking about myself and what others thought, and just relaxed. The usual ';be yourself'; advice basically. Just chill out and be yourself. Some people may not like you. Just don't bother caring. Only concern yourself with being calm and true to yourself. Best and LEAST stressful way to you. And you'll make some great friends!Can you give me some high school advice?
    I'm a junior and hating high school, haha. I thought it was going to be awesome but it really hasn't been, oh well. I would definitely try to get over that whole shy side. Most of the people I know that enjoy high school are really outgoing. I'm not shy, but I'm not the most outgoing person in the world either. I wish I had socialized more Freshman and Sophomore year, it feels like I'm making up for lost ground now.





    On the plus side you really can just about start over in high school. Unfortunately from what I've seen after a year or two max you're pretty much set in place as to how your time in high school is going to end up. High school goes by pretty quick, I can't believe my Junior year is almost over already. Just try to enjoy it.





    In the mean time I'll be waiting for college (happily).
    During the first week introduce yourself to ask much people as you can. Extend your hand, smile, and introduce yourself. It will be a lot harder after the first couple weeks to meet new people. Don't forget to smile when you make eye contact with people. Don't look at the ground when you walk around in the halls. Look friendly and approachable. Just talk to people. Talk about classes. Ask what classes other have. Play sports. Join organizations. You need to talk to people. Carry around gum. Offer it to people for an ice breaker. Have fun and talk to people. They want to meet you just as badly as they want to meet you.
    omgg ur just like me im in 8th grade .. and goin to highschool next year ( hopefully ) %26amp; ppl always see me as the ' quiet shy girl ' or w.e but obvioslyy they dont knw me enuff likem that becausee im not really like that around my closest friends .. but anyways yeaa i do want highschool to be differentt and stuff .. and i already know alot of ppl gunna be changinn %26amp; some of my friends or yourss may not talk to u cuhs thats jus how girls are .. they can be fony somtimes ... but yeaa only thing i can tell u is jus try to make new friends next year because thats wat ill do or sumthin idk . gud luck = )
    most people feel nervous before going to secondary school, it just normal. as for the shy part, ive been trying for ages not to be shy, if you ever find out how, let me know :P i guess all we gotta do is ditch our natural instincts and just against them lolz. gl, should be fun
    I would tell you is study alot, do all your homework, do all your assignments. You want to think about what college you want to go.
    highschool in America sucks unless you go to a good one...8 hrs per day and it feels like jail....I was an A student but I wasted four years of my life....college is way better....thumbs up any one who agrees
    you should just be ur self thats what people like best!


    good luck! :)

    If you could give one piece of advice what would it be?

    No mean answers please,if you have to be harsh make it constructive


    ThanksIf you could give one piece of advice what would it be?
    Treat others the way u wld like to be treated.If you could give one piece of advice what would it be?
    Never ever join a gang or a clique on YA.





    Misguided loyalty will always draw you into confrontations with other cliques, causing you to say and do things that are out of character.





    Having contacts is not a problem, but far better to state what you think as an individual, state your case as you see it and rely on no one for support or corroboration.





    Say what you think and be honest in every question in which you take part
    What Pooh said. I'm not a Christian, but that Jesus bloke talked some sense.





    ';Believe nothing, no matter where you read it, or who said it, no matter if I have said it, unless it agrees with your own reason and your own common sense.';


    Buddha





    ';And why take ye thought for raiment? Consider the lilies of the field, how they grow. They toil not, neither do they spin, and yet I say unto you that even Solomon in all his glory was not arrayed like one of these...Take therefore no thought for the morrow, for the morrow shall take thought for the things of itself.';


    Jesus
    Advice is like snow,the softer it falls,the longer it dwells upon,and deeper it sink,s into the mind.
    Manage your time wisely. That implies several other things, like:


    1. learn to prioritize


    2. Only work on major goals


    3. Get rid of time-wasters


    4. Plan ahead
    Don't worry about what others think of you. As long as you be the best person you can be the rest will fall into place.
    Always aim high and reach out for your dreams as only you can make them happen.
    We all come into and leave this world the same way its what you do and how you act to others inbetween that makes the difference
    Live your life with no regrets.
    Don't make assumptions about anyone it can backfire badly.
    Wait because everything passes and changes!
    Control yourself


    Then you won't smoke, get fat, get AIDS, make unwanted babies, get drunk, do drugs, or any other crime
    You can't win if you don't play.
    Don't eat yellow snow!


    EDIT: And don't accept an apology from a sh!t stirring troublemaker
    Do not drink. Keep away from children
    don't EVER buy a stainless steel fridge freezer, if you ever had one the reason would be apparent, i hate mine :(( lol
    get off your backsides and start doing things, life doesn't come to you neither does the opportunites.
    Never trust a Politician!
    Anyone who doesnt like you is not worth worrying about.
    Work hard, play hard.
    Always reach for the stars! Even if you don't reach them, you won't end up with a handful of dirt.
    Think twice, you only have to act on something when you,re 100% sure of what you are doing
    Don't eat the green jelly.
    Mine my own business.
    Be Yourself.
    get paid for a job you love, better than being stuck in a job you hate.
    Carpe Diem.





    [seize the day]
    Don't sweat the small stuff :)
    Live and let live.
    Don't ever give up.
    Be true to yourself.

    What degree do you need for an Advice Columnist?

    A degree in Psychology would help. Besides, you will need to be good in writing.What degree do you need for an Advice Columnist?
    If that is your passion journalism and maybe a minor in psycology or sociiology because in most of the advice colomuns people are asking for opinion on social issues or how they feel about something and sociology deals with how people are in society and psycology deals with a single person and how they feel etc. What I would do is look at your local newspaper and see what kind of questions people are asking and see at your school of choice what kind of majors they offer and try to line up what you want. But counslers and advisors at colleges are always knowledgable on what cources can benefit in a profession of choice. Good Luck!What degree do you need for an Advice Columnist?
    I think you have to have some sort of English or Journalism major to do any work with public publications.
    a level 12 from yahoo answers
    While there is no specific degree for this, you might give yourself an edge getting hired by a newpaper by getting some credentials that will help you establish yourself as someone that can either communicate well or is an expert in a field... (English degree, communications, psychology, sociology, etc.)





    Dan Savage, for example, has little to no formal training and yet is one of the top syndicated advice columnists in the country.
    Perhaps journalism. But if company wanted you just because you give good advice, probably none.
    I dont think its necessary to have any at all, but it couldnt hurt to have a degree in social work or psychology.
    Probably a degree in communications

    Based on your experiences and knowledge what advice do you have for a senior (12th) about life in general?

    This could include advice on jobs, college, money, love, what you wish you did differently, etc.Based on your experiences and knowledge what advice do you have for a senior (12th) about life in general?
    Have fun, but dont screw around your first 2 years, because they will come back to bite you later....trust me. I fooled around my first degree, and now I am back for a second degree at 30+. It sucks that I could have been this seriouse when I was young. Dont get sucked into the party scene, the scene is much better when your 23 and making $$$$$$$. I had an internship interview at a large hospital and they asked me why i struggled in a Chem class 17 years earlier!!.Based on your experiences and knowledge what advice do you have for a senior (12th) about life in general?
    live it up
    The most important advice: discover what being human is REALLY all about as opposed to merely being another narcissist clone climbing the sociopath ladder to ';success';.





    Read: *The Complete Idiot's Guide to Toltec Wisdom* as an easily understood entrance to the world of non-mediocrity. Also, exercise regularly, and meditate diligently :))
    wear a condom


    travel


    experience as much as possible


    before you get tied down


    to a family and a career


    go to college


    if your the type


    and have the motivation


    otherwise your just wasting your time


    follow your bliss


    smell the roses


    watch a sunrise


    hold hands


    go to a carnival


    dont lie cheat or steal


    have fun


    be kind


    take a walk through the woods


    get fresh air and sunshine


    exercise


    swim


    read


    fly a kite


    pet a cat


    play with a dog


    play with children


    give something to someone in need


    give thanks every day


    never take friends and family for granted
    Joe Hagans rules





    Strangers do not love you





    People do not always tell the truth





    There is no such thing as a free lunch
    Life is a journey in search of true happiness....while you will find bits and pieces here, it will be in the afterlife when it will be obtained. Live life as you see it to the fullest while progressing forward. The journey will have pit falls and detours but do not be deterred.......you will overcome them and gain strength and wisdom from the pain. These will aid in your quest for happiness.





    I do not have any idea what line of study you are going to pursue in college (and i wish you well too). Please try to include several courses in philosophy to help you learn to think logically and learn of the thoughts of those gone before (even if you disagree with them, you will be better able to discuss that too). It will enable you to move forward in the journey to happiness.





    If you decide to take a year off before continuing your education, could i suggest you do do a thru hike of the Appalachian Trial....Doing so, will teach you much about yourself and make you a much deeper person.





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    The unexamined life is a life of pain and reoccuring problems. Therefore, learn while young to accurately analyze what you have done right and what you have done wrong.
    ah jason, where were you when I was a senior!


    He said it for me!
    Don't ever get an adjustable rate mortgage
    Here are my ABCs of Life





    A - attempt everything


    B - break rules


    C - change lives


    D - dare to be different


    E - excellence is easier to reach than perfection


    F - first to come, last to leave


    G - grow mentally, physically, and spiritually


    H - happiness is situational. Joy is forever


    I - ignorance is the chain that binds the soul


    J - ';just kidding'; is a myth. believe what you say


    K - kindness breeds respect


    L - love the unlovable


    M - money can't buy the truly important things


    N - no one needs friends who pull them down


    O - opportunity is always knocking. try letting it in


    P - Principles (and bosses) are people too


    Q - Quick! get it done - no procrastinating the inevitable


    R - rest and relaxation are good for you


    S - stress-free is the way to be


    T - trust is hard to build and easy to destroy


    U - ugliness or beauty should depend on personality, not physical appearance


    V - victorious people don't give up


    W - whiners never prosper


    X - Xclaim your opinion only to those who are willing to listen


    Y - you are not the best, but you are the best you


    Z - Zzz... sleep is refreshing and really does help your test sores!!!





    hope that helps!!!
    1._ Don't give to others what you don't want for yourself.





    2._ Give to others what they give you.





    3. _ Take it easy(sense of humor).





    4._ Focus(stay sharp).





    5._ Keep it simple(but sometimes insist in complicating it).





    6._ And never forget: If you cannot dazzle them, confuse them.
    do not try to take a year off. it is great that year, but will make enrolling harder and something you might forget out or keeping pushing forward in life for who knows what reason. don't take a full schedule first year.take a class or two less if you can.
    do what in your heart is real and right for you in ALL areas of your life at ALL times :)
    always do what u think is right, what feels right. dont trick urself into doing something you know is wrong with convulted reason and what not. laugh every chance you get. be humble. accept everyone. talk to people. go for walks. love yourself.

    I've just passed my test, what advice can you give regarding driving on my own for the first time?

    1. never forget your blind spot on your left side


    2. always be aware of your surroundings so nothing takes you by surprise


    3. enjoy yourself because once you start driving alone, you get the hang of it rather quickly and it will become second nature to you like breathingI've just passed my test, what advice can you give regarding driving on my own for the first time?
    Realize the importance of building a good driving record. Smart drivers are safe drivers. And, safe drivers qualify for reduced insurance rates.





    Dont drink and wear your seat belts.





    Car crashes top the list as the leading cause of death among 16-24 year-olds, most resulting from reckless behavior and drunk driving.I've just passed my test, what advice can you give regarding driving on my own for the first time?
    I'm 61 years old and have an excellent driving record, not that I haven't had some close calls. Accidents were avoided because, as I taught my kids, who also have excellent records, 95% OF SAFE DRIVING IS IN ANTICIPATION.. That means leaving a few minutes early and driving at an appropriate speed for the conditions and paying attention. When something goes wrong, wether it's a patch of ice or fog or another driver doing something stupid, and there are lots of those out there, you stand a much better chance of getting out of it without getting hurt or hurting someone else if your driving slowly. Be calm, pay attention, it's the coolest way to be and it can save your life. Being mobile is such an upgrade, it would be a pity to lose it. Good luck to you.
    just relax no radio no phone no distractions don't try everything at once there r enough distractions out there.. try driving by yourself before you overload the car w friends
    my advice i would give you is don't let nobody drive your car and dont drink and drive. and don't have too many people in your car. also don't show off with speeding and cutting cars off
    Take it slow and remember to breathe. No really, breathe.
    put your seat belt on, dont eat or drink and drive, pay attention to the road, watch out for people
    dont speed...got my first ticket week after...parents were pretty pissed haha but it was all good

    Professional outfit. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?

    I was picked to be a ';Hero'; for Graduate Program at my university. The university wants to take my pictures for their brochure (I also want to attachment the brochure on my resume).





    I have couple silk outfits, but I think it is too much for the brochure. Therefore, I want to wear black top, blackpencil skirt, black shoes and a beautiful white/orenge jacket. What do you think of the outfit?





    Should I wear the silk outfits? Any sugegestion? I normally don't wear make up or do my hair. Any suggestion?





    Thank you very much for your kindness. I am very excited about the whole project.Professional outfit. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
    First I wish to say congratulations, you never mentioned what colour the silk outfits are (I'm just being nosey).


    You should wear a little light makeup foundation will give a smooth clear tint to your skin, a little blusher can bring your face to life, mascara and a little eye shadow and lipstick also look good on photographs. If you like your hair wild keep it like that as its part of your personality but makesure its clean.


    You should wear what you feel most comfortable in I'm sure you know what will be really appropriate and what will look good on your resume for future use. I think the skirt and jacket sounds nice but the picture may only be head and shoulders so the skirt and shoes may not be seen.Professional outfit. 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
    personally, I would go with the black skirt and if you have a black jacket, I would wear that with a bright colored shirt.


    For makeup since you don't usually wear it, I would go with something light. Put on foundation, a little blush, lip gloss, an eyeshadow that blends with the colors in the shirt and some mascara.


    Good Luck, I hope this helps!
    Think about what your best colors are, and which outfit is most flattering. I think that color is more important than the type of fabric. It might also help if you know where the picture will be taken. Will you be indoors or out? Do you have any idea as to what the background will be? You want to wear something which will contrast nicely. Of course, remember to smile. :) Congratulations!
    Ditch the old outfits,,,go for something old fashioned,,,plus hairdo,,,the fashion is coming back,,,,,Good Luck,,,,
    I would go with the skirt and jacket idea and a touch of light makeup, a little mascara, a lip gloss or balm, maybe some blusher, depending on the tone of your skin.





    I would leave your hair natural if you don't normally style it as it'll be something else to be self concious of. Just clean and shiny.





    Good luck, you'll dazzle em.
    Well, i would go with the black top, skirt...if you're having second thoughts about the silk outfits.


    If you don't usually wear makeup, than just wear some foundation, concealer(if you need to), blush for a little bit of a glow, and a light colored lipstick(nude, pink)


    For you hair, just do something simple like a side pony:


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    or


    pull it back in a regular pony tail:


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    or


    just leave it the way it is and just brush it a few times. It also depends on what angle they're taking the picture from. If they are going straight on, than cut the pony tail(regular) idea, because you don't want to look like you don't have any hair!





    Good luck!!
    What are you majoring in? (This could give us a clue as to what you should wear - seriously)

    Would you take parental advice(or any other advice) from a 32 old man who has always lived with his mama?

    noneWould you take parental advice(or any other advice) from a 32 old man who has always lived with his mama?
    No, none.

    Will you give me some amazing inspiring advice that can motivate me?

    from Jimmy Valvano(just before he died of cancer)


    To me, there are three things we all should do every day. We should do this every day of our lives. Number one is laugh. You should laugh every day. Number two is think. You should spend some time in thought. Number three is, you should have your emotions moved to tears, could be happiness or joy. But think about it. If you laugh, you think, and you cry, that's a full day. That's a heck of a day. You do that seven days a week, you're going to have something special.





    It's so important to know where you are. I know where I am right now. How do you go from where you are to where you want to be? I think you have to have an enthusiasm for life.


    I urge all of you, all of you, to enjoy your life, the precious moments you have. To spend each day with some laughter and some thought


    ';Nothing great could be accomplished without enthusiasm,'; to keep your dreams alive in spite of problems whatever you have. The ability to be able to work hard for your dreams to come true, to become a reality.


    ';Don't give up, don't ever give up.';Will you give me some amazing inspiring advice that can motivate me?
    Here's a little song I wrote


    You might want to sing it note for note


    Dont worry, be happy





    In every life we have some trouble


    But when you worry you make it double


    Dont worry, be happy





    Dont worry be happy now


    Doo Doo Doo Doo Doo Doo Doo Doo Doo Doo Doo Doo





    Aint got no place to lay your head


    Somebody came and took your bed


    Dont worry, be happy





    The landlord say your rent is late


    He may have to litagate


    Dont worry, be happy';





    Etc etc..Will you give me some amazing inspiring advice that can motivate me?
    %26gt;%26gt;If you feel down when you get up, switch on some catchy or funny


    songs(some oldies are real good), do 30mins of simple stretching exercises and dumb-bells. Go for a cool shower and give yourself a nice simple break-fast. Otherwise go for an hour brisk-walk in the park or a slow 20-lap swim.





    %26gt;%26gt;Once a month or couple of times a year, get close relatives and friends together for a barbeque, take videos and play some games. Great for bonding, exchanging stories, jokes, etc.





    %26gt;%26gt;Take up a few useful or interesting hobbies like karaoke, tap dancing, painting, cartooning, etc with a couple of friends to liven up your days.





    Best of luck and adventures! :-)))
    Get off yahoo answers and start making something of yourself. Only you can change your situation, no one is going to do it for you. Instead of asking yourself what can I do to get motivated, just get up and do what you want to do. Just takes mental fortitude. Easy as that.
    Don't you seem to make a free choice every second of your existence? Think about it. You are constantly making choices - or choosing not to make choices. But, you have the power to make a free choice at every moment. You determine your own destiny. --Jean Paul Sartre
    I saw a little beetle the other day, he was in some rush accross the concrete yard. For a moment his world and mine crossed. How vast and diverse reality is. And how beautiful too.
    I bet you get a lot of smart @$$ replies to this question.... The truth is- no one but you can motivate yourself. Think positively and always assume positive intent.
    You could have been aborted . . .





    You could be dead . . .





    Be Thankful and enjoy your life.
    You're asking someone who is using yahoo answers in their past time to motivate you?
    The greatest risk is not taking one. Take a risk.
    Do not seek to follow the footsteps of the wise,


    ...Seek what they sought.
    Use it or lose it.
    get up and get moving........!!!!!


    dont worry be happy.......!!!


    believe yourself....!!!

    How many ways have you felt safer from future terrorist attacks because of bush's advice to buy duct tape?

    Check 3M stock and earnings price, it hit the roof when that was suggested.How many ways have you felt safer from future terrorist attacks because of bush's advice to buy duct tape?
    I feel infintely better having duct tape in the house. Everyone knows that duct tape fixes everything. Besides, I can duct tape my gun to my hand and then I won't have to look for it in the event of terrorist attack.





    ~Morg~How many ways have you felt safer from future terrorist attacks because of bush's advice to buy duct tape?
    Growing up we had drills in case of bombs. (70's) That will be next. Will that make you feel better? It's common sense maybe you should use some.
    I remember doing duck and cover exercises during the Kennedy and Johnson administrations in case of nuclear attack. Duct tape is a huge improvement over those.
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  • Do you guys have any advice for me?

    I really don't know what to do with myself. I'm ugly, thin, and can't get any girls. I'm 22, so I'm still young. I shouldn't be complaining, but I get jealous of couples. I'll probably find someone, but it may not be for a while. How do I get women when I'm not that good looking?Do you guys have any advice for me?
    First of all you need a little more self esteem. It might not be your looks at all but it may be the way you feel about yourself. For a ego boost, why not go to an upscale hair stylist and have them advise you on a cut that is good for you, then go to a good department store and put together a couple of good clothing choices. You will be surprised how much better you look when you feel good about yourself. And then you are only 22, whats the rush?Do you guys have any advice for me?
    You just need to be patient and stop being so hard on yourself. When people feel lonely its normal to feel jealous of other couples. And like you said your only 22 years old. Stop thinking that you have to be with someone to feel complete. Find love within yourself first. Answering your question, women will come to you as long as you you portray confidence and strength. Good looks dont always matter and you will learn that. //// So dont worry you will meet the right one someday, you just need to be patient with life./// be positive! ;-)
    I'm sue you're not as bad looking as you think. Maybe you just need some work. Ask one of your closer female friends to help you. Get some new clothes, new haircut, etc. The other thing is your personality... looks do matter to some people but personality is what seals the deal. Confidence is key.
    you don't have to be good looking all you have to do is be have confidence in your self girls really like that and also your personality
    you don't have to be good looking to get a girl you just have to have confidence in yourself! you should work on building up yourself esteem and remember good things come to those who wait!
    to tell u the truth girls like confidence but not in a scary or jack as* way be confident with who u r and theyll c the true side of u
    put yourself out there. go to clubs and act like you own that place. ;D

    What is one piece of advice that you would like to share with Answerees tonight?

    Field is wide open. Whatever is on your minds.What is one piece of advice that you would like to share with Answerees tonight?
    I had 9,000 points. So glad to warp up to level 6. Instead they put me again at 9,000 points. This is the SECOND time this has happened. Yahoo just won't listen.


    Bah humbug, valentine's day style.


    Thanks for letting me vent.What is one piece of advice that you would like to share with Answerees tonight?
    Don't eat fuzzy cheese. Don't mud wrestle in a bikini with a midget. Never cheat on your taxes.





    Live every day like you've just done one of the above.
    God is above all.





    Don't regret. It's just a waste of time.


    Don't worry. It changes nothing.


    Don't focus on the past or the future. Focus on the present and God will take you where you need to go.
    look both ways before you cross the street
    ALMOST HONEST.....sweating bullets
    Just try to play nice.
    For those lucky enough to have a date, do what my friend always does, lucky or not: keep a Trojan in your wallet.
    What goes around, comes around -- AKA be nice to people!
    Don't pee down my back and tell me it is raining.
    don't get reported
    Get to bed on time you fellas!
    if u dont give best answer to some people u may get reported...apparently..because i asked a valid question and someone reported that as chatting...oh well.
    Life=pushing a boulder up a hill, just to watch it roll back down.
    Don't let valentines fool you.
    Gasoline and fire don't mix.
    Valentine's Day only matters because you get free chocolate.
    don't attend the jello wrestling extravaganza at the senior center
    don't sit here so long you get carpal tunnel, like I do.
    I wish I hadn't gotten so attached... gosh, that's harsh for me on Valentines day
    From a old man--don't ever put your job/work be for your family--


    been there- done that- the kids grow up and the grim reaper thats your loved one and you are left with nothing

    If you don't save anything for retirement because your lifestyle. What advice would you give?

    I can not save for retirement because I have a combining debt of $63153.2(student loans, credit cards)


    I promise my whole family to pick the tab of the education of my siblings and when my parents get old pay for ther retirement for the rest of their life. Under that condition when I was 18 I sign a contract promising to pay my siblings education and my parents retirement. Part of the condition included my parents paid in full the education for me and living costs for 10 years.


    I have been analysing my life, our lifestyles. I have to pay for my siblings up to $20000 a year. Once they graduate approximate in 5 to 10 years for all of them. My parents will be aprox 70s. And I will be starting to pay for them. Lets say they live 100 which is possible. I will be in my late sixties at that time with no savings at all.


    Should I expect the social security as an alternative?


    I graduated this may at the age of 28 with a bachelors. I just get an employment wich will pay me 41K a year.If you don't save anything for retirement because your lifestyle. What advice would you give?
    I strongly advise that you do a budget and stick to it. Maybe go out less often or cut back on shopping.


    Social security will not pay out that much each month.





    For retirement, I would get a Roth IRA and put away at least $200/month.


    For your kids education, I would seek a 529 plan.


    For your parents, they should seek a variable annuity. It guarantees to pay income for life when they retire.If you don't save anything for retirement because your lifestyle. What advice would you give?
    Live fast, die young and make a good looking corpse.
    There will be no social security by the time you retire. Be prepared to live out your retirement in poverty.
    1. The contract you signed at age 18 is probably unenforceable, in fact, probably not itself a valid contract, because you gave no ';consideration'; as part of the bargain. I don't think you are obligated by that contract.





    2. What about scholorships and work/study for your siblings?





    3. Parents don't ';own'; their emancipated adult children. If you feel totally responsible for them, then, I guess, you owe them a 35 year old house trailer sitting in your driveway. They can live there and cook their own food and stay out of your way and your house.





    4. Don't expect ever to get a social security check. You're ';too young,'; the cupboard will be bare by the time you're in your sixties.





    5. Open a Roth IRA now and put the maximum amount of money into it each year.
    I'm left wondering how you ended up in an agreement like that. Why would you be responsible for paying for your siblings' educations? I guess you agreed to it, and you did get ten years of expenses and an education... but that's a big decision for an 18-yr.-old to make, and it does not sound entirely fair to me.





    You have to work off the credit cards first, then the student loans, before you can consider any kind of savings or investments. If you don't, you're just kidding yourself, as you can't save money while high-interest loans are growing on you.





    Congratulations on the degree and the new job. You'll need more than a 41K salary to make your situation work, however. If the agreement is binding, either legally or, to you, ethically, than pay off the debt as fast as you can and then consult a finance expert for your next move. And good luck. :)
    get the book ';your money or your life'; by joe dominguez and vicki robbin, and read it, from the library if you can.
    You didn't sign a very good deal, there. I hope you like the profession you choose because it looks like you'll be working until you drop.





    Realistically, though, you could end up being able to pay of your debts. My father took an early retirement, then worked part time until he turned 60. Now he still does occasional jobs and lives comfortably on his social security. We help him out, so maybe you'll have kids that help you?!? It's a thought, anyway.
    I would not count on Social Security because at this rate, there won't be any by the time you need it
    well because of your lifestyle I would assume your living for the now, and not the future, guess you'll have to pray social security stays in place and be a walmart door greeter till you can't no more.

    Can you give me advice on Evercare health insurance?

    Evercare offers Medicare plans and Medicaid plans. Medicare plans are for the elderly (over the age of 65) and Medicaid plans are for those with low incomes or those who are disabled.





    Evercare does not offer ';regular'; major medical health insurance plans in any of the 50 states as far as I know.





    If you are looking for a health insurance company then here is some additional information:

    What's the best advice you can give to a battered husband?

    Leave the relationship. Pack up and go. get lawyers to deal with the divorce. The loss of assets is worth the freedom. Same for battered wives. Grab the bare essentials and go. Starting over on ones own can be hard but it's easier in the long run, and it is alot easier on ones spirit. Starting over causes spiritual growth. Being battered causes spiritual stagnation.What's the best advice you can give to a battered husband?
    The sooner you get out of the relationship the better for you-just like they say to battered women it will never stop and never get any better only worse.


    File for divorce on he grounds of spousal abuse, Talk to a counselor or other prof. if you need support and guidance.good luck to youWhat's the best advice you can give to a battered husband?
    Run motha f*****a run!!!!
    run for your life! they are alot of fat, unwant women out there for you to pick. If you dont then I would suggest you book a room in mental hospital, in case you cant run anymore.
    Get help from a professional counselor. Also plan to spend some time behind bars. Call a lawyer to bail you out of jail. Oh yeah almost forgot start looking for a second job, you will need it to pay for all of the additional expenses you caused.
    Hit back and then leave.
    seek legal advice now. see if you can make her pay financially. take a stand for yourself and all others in a similar position
    Just try to love him...
    walk away, thats the only advice i can give
    Divorce
    call the cops on her and make sure police reports are filed. Get pictures and hospital reports of any injuries, and make sure the cops see that she is UNINJURED. Do this a lot. If she tries to divorce you or sue you later, you'll have documentation of how she is the abusive one, and she will lose in court.
    Leave and if you have kids take them with you. You can't live your life giving anyone permission to abuse you.
    See you in jail buddy!!!
    Key advice: Don't hit back.
    The same I would give to a battered woman. Get out now. Call the police, and go to a safe place. Lose all contact with her, and press charges. Stay away. Don't be ashamed, just do what you have to to move on and take care of yourself.
    Same advice I'd give a battered wife...Get the hell away from your batterer.
    My advice would be for him to call the police..have this person arrested for domestic violence..battery..etc..What this person is doing to him..is against the law..it is a crime..punishable in a court of law..he should use the law to protect himself from this person..until he chooses to stand up..take back the life this person is trying to steal from him..nothing is ever going to change..
    Leave, and then get counseling. No one deserves to be hit. Don't hit back because, unfortunately, if there is a domestic violence case and the police are called, it's usually the man who goes to jail. Seriously! Leave!
    Get out of there now before you are taken out in a hearse.

    Would you take relationship advice from a hooker?

    You know, put ';hooker'; in any question. Guaranteed 50+ answers.Would you take relationship advice from a hooker?
    Maybe boobs and hooker in the same sentence....


    Thank you!

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    Would you take relationship advice from a hooker?
    Advice would need to depend on my relationship with the Hooker - be it as personal friend or as a paying customer, her level of education and whether she her diction showed the intelligence on which she based her advice.
    I actually beg to difer...and say,


    Yep.


    Sometimes one can tel you something helpful that steers you right,


    like how NOT to be jealous and do the same stupid s**t you did IN a relationship in the first place. (Personally, I think the best advice from a hooker on relationships would be ';Don't get INTO one!';)





    DEE-DEE-DEE!


    (-to borrow from Carlos Mencia!)
    Not really! The best advice comes from someone who has been successful at what they are saying and hookers are not about relationships.
    They should make that into a reality show. Relationship 101 with Professor Hooker. Hey it would work; how long has Survivor been on?
    Hell no, that's like getting psychological advice from an insane person.
    It could really be a cop coming off as a hooker to make some arrests... that changes the rules of engagement :P
    I'd take into consideration what she (or he) says





    maybe depends on what he says
    Why not I take relationship advice from complete strangers on here.
    um no....unless I wanted to wreck someone else's relationship... which is a major no-no
    No. I went out with a hooker, but she told me she doesn't fool around on the first date.
    actually yes. you should read malcolm x's auto biography as told to alex haley. at least the first half of it. i guess they kinda know more about it cause its their bread and butter
    Probably not but it depends on what the advice was.
    possibly, sex advice.
    Negative
    in a heartbeat, then again i take relationship advice from my dog so...
    Lol I've been doing that with white girls all the time





    Not all are bad. Don't generalize.
    It would have to be one very special hooker...
    Oh yes...A hooker knows all.
    Maybe pointers, but not advice.
    maybe it depends why shes a hooker
    Sure, I'm open minded.
    doesnt everyone? ∙
    probably not
    NO
    No
    I think not!
    HELL no
    Why? Whatcha got for me?
    ha. NO.
    That's guaranteed an STD or too
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  • What's the best advice you've ever gotten in your life ?

    The piece of advice that was given to you by a family member, a friend, or just someone you knew.. something someone told you when you were little, or in time of need.. something you'll never forget..What's the best advice you've ever gotten in your life ?
    My dad had several health and financial problems towards the end of his life, yet he still travelled and lived indepentantly and on his own terms....Just before passing away, we asked if there was anything he wanted to get off his chest about his life...you know, clear the air? ..... He just smiled and replied ...';No...I had fun getting here.';





    So that's what we put on his tombstone.





    I guess what I'm saying is that no matter what life throws at you, have as much fun getting where you're going as you can...they'll be less regrets that way.What's the best advice you've ever gotten in your life ?
    Trust in God
    when my grandfather was dying of Alzheimer's: ';don't sit still, you'll get old that way.';


    love and miss him terribly





    and my new favorite - carpe diem!!
    u laugh at me becoz im different but i laugh at u becoz ur all the same





    Stop pretending, to know what you are really like and acknowledge it,a positive thinking of enjoying yourself, isnt that what true strength is?





    the world is sick.it needs a doctor-Jesus.(an advice from me to myself)
    1. Be the change you want to see in the world and


    2. If you can believe it, you can achieve it.
    i don't know about advice i've gotten... but my friend has gotten advice from her teacher about her stalker and got rid of him lol :-D
    well i read in a book from Dan Brown in a speech that god let us make mistakes like a parent leave the kid rides it's bicycle even though it may be dangerous.i liked this comparison it made me understand why god doesn't interferes in every bad thing we choose to do
    Just because you don't agree with someone doesn't mean you, or they, are wrong.
    1) ';Never let the bast..... get you down';





    2) ';Never give up';
    Act always so that you would not be ashamed if your mother (or some other person you love most and respect highly) would observe you.





    I assure it is a very high moral principle difficultly to stand sometimes or even often through.
    Okay .. erm .. it is unforgetable .. My 3rd brother has given this advice for me ..


    last time i alway think i m most clever , and etc alway spend my time with friend only .. then alway don't listen to what parent said !!


    he told me not to so proud of myself .. n call me to love family member .. cuz every human only got 1 family in our life .. if we don't value it .. after we lost it .. it will be too late to regret everything .. so sometimes we should spend our time with family !! but we also must balance .. sometimes also spend time with friend .. but not too in 1 side !! ..


    hope this can help you !! =)
    When in doubt, eat then sleep
    Do your best....
    my brother told me to eat a bullet when I was 7. Damn, I really should have listened
    easy does it
    ';help yourself';
    1) You never realize what you have till its gone.





    2) What goes around comes around.





    3) Sometimes the right thing and the hardest thing is the same thing...but always do the right thing.
    Not advice from anyone I know but what I have learned from my readings and what I have passed on to my child :





    What others think of you is none of your business.





    AND





    It's not how much money you make but how much you keep.
    Live your life to the fullest but don't hurt anyone and respect all.obey the Golden Rule and try to keep the friends you had on the way up, because you may need them on your way down.
    from my Dad: ';Sometimes kid...your best shot forward will be a kick in the Axx.'; (Of course not a real kick... a theoretical one!)
    To let my best friend and my crush date, no matter how much it hurts me, but at least they will be happy.
    Keep your friends close, keep your enemies closer.
    'In a 100 years, will it matter?' I could be in the deepest crap but reminding myself of this makes everything else seem trivial. Got it off a song by the blues traveller.
    to always have a mind of your own !
    If you want to get the girl, you gotta know how to dance.


    The best helping hands are at the ends of your own arms.


    If you live with a woman, have patience and a good sense of humor.
    dont go on yahoo answers
    That a have to believe that I'm beautiful :)


    Thta's the best advice I have ever had





    ...
    respect your elders and work hard and stand on your own legs without taking any body help . try creating self motivation inside you. this was the advice given to me by my family and friends.when i was in school
    ';Always be yourself!'; and I've received it when I was very young :)
    belive in yourself. if you do you can do almost anything
    Couple of my favorites are: Advice is like a **hole, everyone has one. You can't chane anyone. You can only change yourself. Don't be f***ed up about him. If you think he is ch**ting then more than likely he is. The mind is wise and the heart foolish.

    Do you think I could start a website that gives people advice on relationships?

    Not only male- female relationships, but family or friend problems? I think I can. Do you think people will visit that site? Also, If you have any questions and need some advice let me know. Email me.Do you think I could start a website that gives people advice on relationships?
    Well I believe that you can. I believe that you can do anything you propose in your heart to do. You are responsible for every action and everything you do. If you've got the talent, then use itDo you think I could start a website that gives people advice on relationships?
    Hey it's worked for many over the years, why not you? Just know it'll take time and a lot of work to develop a following. Maybe start a Yahoo Group? Best of luck.
    I think it already exists......it's called Yahoo Answers.
    i think u can and i think that people will visit bc some people need help all day everyday and this website does not provide the best help so i think u should
    SURE DO IT I NEED HELP RIGHT NOW DO IT WRITE AN ANN LAUNDERS FOR A NEWSPAPER TO
    i think it's a wonderful idea! i'm a writer and think anything like that is great. i'd totally visit. go for it! :) God bless you and take care!
    If you are young, then you should make it a site that aims to teenagers. Most adults would only visit your site if they knew you had either passed a psychology degree or had been through the problem yourself.





    I think you will do good if its an area you are interested in. As you get older, study in it as well. You should make your site accessible to others and give it a catchy name that people won't forget. Good luck!

    What is the worst advice your mother ever gave you?

    seriously...this is gross....my mom think's 'douching' is a good idea. YUCKO!!! Ug. Oh she also (and I'm not fricken making this up) never to let a guy hurt me during sex. Well...more like, she found some of my brother's bondage porn...held it up and screamed (with knife in hand...in front of my boyfriend) ';IF A MAN EVER TRIES TO DO THIS WITH YOU, YOU CHOP OF HIS PENIS'; Nice, mom. Classy.What is the worst advice your mother ever gave you?
    Get married..What is the worst advice your mother ever gave you?
    wear a dress girl...
    ';Be fruitful and multiply';


    I was 12!!!
    Telling me to put my Wallet in my Back Pocket when I already knew that was a bad idea.
    ';just get yourself a good job, dear, with benefits!'; ';don't attract attention to yourself'; ';don't rock the boat'; ';why must you always speak up for yourself'; and ';you can be anything you want dear, just dont be gay...for the love of god, dont be gay.';
    Stay away from those hussies.

    Can you give some advice on how to build a medicine wheel?

    I'm not sure how to build one, but I have one. Try your local homoeopathy or health food store for more accurate info (that's where I got mine). It's kind of complicated, because three different animals are gathered in four different categories, and there is more than one way to use it.Can you give some advice on how to build a medicine wheel?
    Just follow the instructions


    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Breaking_wh鈥?/a>Can you give some advice on how to build a medicine wheel?
    Don't !


    I don't know what this is or how it is used and why, but it seems from the Google results that I got that is all crap!
    First, buy a gross of extra-strength Tylenol...
    you need to know the real god

    Have you ever fired someone? What advice do you have?

    I have fired people but find it difficult. I would like answers that offer suggestions on how to handle it in the most respectful manner while maintaining professionalism.Have you ever fired someone? What advice do you have?
    What I generally do is to invite them in my room and ask them what they think about there performance. Most of the time they come exactly with the short-comings themselves without me having to put them out. In the case the individual is oblivious to there short-comings I will state them in a non-emotional way, trying to focus on his/her professional growth that probably can be better obtained in surroundings other then within our company.





    In case of sharp bitter blaming and cursing/shouting what not, I become calmer say less and less only stating ';I hear what you say';, ';Do you really think so';, ';Interesting viewpoint';, ';So you agree that you are not anymore part of our team'; ';so then you probably feel better when you would make a career change'; etc. etc.





    And then the real masterpiece ';Let them fire themselves / put them in the Cooler';:





    - Cool down your friendly side leading up to your exit talk, most people can't take it to be fired, they rather walk (giving them signals that they are not anymore so welcome and valued as before will psychologically bring them a few steps closer to leaving)Have you ever fired someone? What advice do you have?
    No have never fired anyone or been fired. I think it is best to just be direct and truthful.
    yes I have fired someone.


    the person did not act their age but acted like a spoiled child
    explain to them why first, it worked for me. i just told him the truth and told him that i think he's a great guy but as an employee he's lacking in too many areas for me to keep him around any longer. you have to get them on your side first unless of course you really dislike them and you can just say it with ease....Your Fired
    The best advice I ever received was ';be firm but compassionate.'; You must deliver a difficult message and you should not couch it in apologies. You must tell the employee honestly why this is happening to him or her. Even though your employee may be ';at-will,'; being honest with him or her is the best policy and it may avoid employment litigation later. At the same time, be compassionate because this decision is going to have a major impact on the employee and his/her family. Think about outplacement counseling for an employee who has not looked a job recently. Do not fire anyone and give them severance pay without first obtaining a legally enforceable written release agreement.
    Be honest with them. If it's performance related, provide factual data to show them where they didn't perform. If it is attendance related, provide them with the data that indicates that it has now become a problem and we have to let you go. Try to keep it short and to the point. Don't tell them how you ';feel'; about it, just stick with the facts and you will come off looking like the professional you are which will result in being respectful as well.

    Thank you for all you great advice?

    Thank you for all your great advice.Thank you for all you great advice?
    A better place to put this would be the comments underneath the selected best answer for your question.





    Otherwise it is not a question and somebody may report you, causing you to lose points with possible suspension if you continue doing this.





    I'm not saying that I am going to report you, but warning you that some people most likely will, so I would delete this 'question' and transfer this to either an e-mail to everyone who gave you good advice or put it in the comments box below the selected best answer for your original question.





    P.S. You don't HAVE to put additional details for your question, so you can just leave the box empty instead of repeating yourself.Thank you for all you great advice?
    Which advise are you talking about?
    what advice
    ur welcome
    I did not see your question, but I hope the advice you have taken is good for you,
    always a pleasure, never a chore
    always a pleasure
    Okay?


    You're welcome?





    [Thanks for the two points.]
    YOUR WELCOME??? YAH 2 PTS
    yeah i awnsereed that quetion, maybe. thnx for the 2 points! your welcome!
    I don't think I answered one of your questions, but you're welcome. And thank you for the 2 points..
    You're very welcome.
    your welcome
    Do You always repeat yourself?
    im glad u got advice that helped u congrats
    Not sure what the question was, but you're welcome...
    anytime... ^_^
    Not a problem keep em coming
    I don't know if I have ever answered one of your questions but if so thanks.
    Muchas Gracias !!!!
    thank ';you'; for the two points!

    Important question: ladies I need your advice, how do you get a gf?

    first off I'm really shy and scared to approach because of fear of rejection, but I will never approach anyways because they're more men in this world than women. most friends say im an attractive looking guy.... 22yrs 5'10, 160lbs, blue eyes, tan skin etc.... but my main question why do all women stare but never approach. sometimes i dont look and when I do look at them i catch them staring at me for some reason..Important question: ladies I need your advice, how do you get a gf?
    I personally like really aggressive guys. You might want to try approaching a girl instead of hoping she'll approach youImportant question: ladies I need your advice, how do you get a gf?
    First off, a guy does not have to be physically attractive. If a woman is looking your way, or ';staring'; as you put it, she is making contact. Maybe she's interested and waiting for you to make the first move. Women like a man to be a man and make the first move. You have to show some strength in character and assurance that you can stand straight up on your hind legs. Most women are turned off by wimping behaviors in a guy. So, the next time you see a woman ';staring'; at you, why don't you smile at her. If she smiles back, the next step is to ask her name. Give yours, and center the impending conversation around her. Women don't mind talking about themselves. Self centered men need to learn not to talk so much about themselves.
    well u have to get rid of the shyness if u want a girlfriend cause girls rely on guys for many things and they are very emotional so u cant be shy u have to be strong. also fear of rejection? all i have to say is there is gonna be a lot of that. but dont let it scare u, use that as a starter and keep going forget the rejection cause thats how u gonna get the right girlfriend and lastly when a lot of women stare at u it means u are very attractive to them so look at them dead in the eye and smile or say hi. it'll attract em and bring em closer. i hope this helps. good luck!
    Women stare at you because they want you to come talk to them. You could just walk up and ask them a general question like did you hear about.... and talk about a topic in the news or about the weather.





    After you talk to her for a few minutes, you will find out information about her that you can then talk to her about herself, women love to talk about themselves and love it when a guy will listen.





    You ask, why do women never approach... we are waiting for you to approach... that's your job, to come to us.





    Give it a try and let me know how it works out for you!!





    Good Luck!!



    You must be attractive then. Naturally most women just won't approach you. That is kind of part of being the WOMAN. (now you do have some bold women though).





    You need to find that confidence and approach the woman. Believe me, a man that isn't afraid to approach me with RESPECT instead of GAME gets many pluses.
    WTF?!?! let me tell you this: it's kinda ingrained in every girls head that it's the guy that should ask the girl out. by not asking any girl out, you know what ur being? a WUSSY. and thats a trait that women are NOT attracted to.





    Unless ur sex appeal and ';charming'; personality is off the charts and they simply can't hold back, then you will never get approached by a girl. dude i was nervous about rejection too but then i realised what i have just said above. Even tho she said she wasn't looking for a boyfriend my confidence level boosted ten-fold, i was just too proud of myself actually asking her out to worry about the fact that she said no! and im not regretting it, asking girls out is a breeze now.... girls that i know at least lol, but still, if u just TRY, ur life will be changed i promise
    Matt, I don't wanna mess up your thinking but you are wrong. There are more of US than YOU on the planet. BTW, you wouldn't be you without one of us.





    First of all maybe you hang out at the wrong places. Go where WE are.





    Second, and not to push your ego or shy buttons, take the risks, make some move to chat, be YOU.





    A.F.
    Some women may be in the same situation as you, so just say hi to someone you like, and try and strike up a conversation if it doesn't go anywhere, then try with someone else or the same person again, but maybe using a different approach.
    they stare because ur attractive and they see something they like


    and most of the time women dont approach a guy


    they want the guy to approach them





    dude i know some ugly guys that pull


    the sexiest looking women and its because they


    take the risk of saying ';hi';
    U said u r scared to approach because of fear of rejetion...


    But if y really want the girl, it is u who must make the first approach..


    How will u kno if u haven't tried?


    Well, what do u want anyway?? They stare because they've got eyes! That's why...(Mayb u've got somthin behind ur back!:D)
    You can approach a girl and open the door to starting something in a very casual way. Approach girls confidently. Be friendly and give them enough attention that they want more. Leave them questioning how into them you are. They'll do the rest.
    don't be afraid of rejection. there r a lot of women! just have more confidence, appreciate yourself, just go up to a girl and ask her if she wants to get a drink with u or go eat and then kep in touch with her.
    Sometimes women tend to think that a guy could be to good looking for them so they will stare but not touch.
    yea dude girls almost never make a 1st move it's just like that


    you have to able to make the 1st move nd go talk 2 them


    good luck 2 u
    go to college? many girls approach you there...
    you sound gay if you want the girl to approach you get some balls

    What was the last piece of advice you were given but ignored.......??

    cool new pic babes....





    last advice lol..NOT to stand on the edge of the stage while chatting...














    yup me knows best pmsl 3 secs later on me **** 5ft below !!


    xxWhat was the last piece of advice you were given but ignored.......??
    Don't let your heart rule your headWhat was the last piece of advice you were given but ignored.......??
    i dont get advise, nobody speaks to me ,,, ive been sat here snce a car accident last weekend ...





    any advice welcome ... ?
    Not to drive long distances but I do as I don't trust my life to anyone else on wheels..except in trains or in planes..
    'take my advice'!AHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
    My mum warned me of my girlfriend, She said ';Sarah is no good for you son, she will break your heart'; My Mother was right as usual .
    dont no coco
    to go back to bed as i was sick
    Don`t drink any more wine..you`ve had a shedful already.....
    Hmm refer back to the last Q of yours, my tongue does slip. ~~Peace~~
    married men never leave their wives....... sorry to say i had given this advice to friend year before and she ignored too.





    funny how when you feel really bad about yourself you fall in love with someone in relationship which will make you feel worse - lesson learnt but i think you always have to learn yourself rather then through advice
    don' t marry her... glad l ignored that one 27 yrs wed now...
    don't drink wine u will be ill!24 hours on i should have listened!
    ';The next time you're talking to somebody, think about what you're going to say, then don't say it, then run away somewhere.';

    What is the best old-fashioned advice you ever received?

    Beware of the toes that you are stepping on today........


    For the may belong to the a#* you'll be kissing tomorrow.What is the best old-fashioned advice you ever received?
    i don't know.. i guees obey the rules or something like that.What is the best old-fashioned advice you ever received?
    ';Aside from infidelity or abuse, anything can be worked out.';- my mom telling me on my wedding day... this has saved my marriage i'll tell you that much
    A woman can have any man she wants as long as she is willing to lower her standards.
    My father told me ; always be a gentleman.
    A real estate salesman told me to get a lot when I was young.
    Pay Attention! Not only to what they say, but also to what they don't say. You would do this for your friends, make sure you do it for your spouse as well. Understand that no matter how similar you are, each of you have different ways of processing information and dealing with problems. Respect them, even when you don't agree, and above all put GOD as a center of your marriage.. with this, you'll be fine.
    No matter how bad you think you have it, there is someone out there that has it worse off. That saying, from my mother, has really helped me put MY life into perspective ALOT of times.
    chose your battles wisly
    Don't join the Marines.
    communication is the key to a healthy relationship, or don't drink the wine before it's time (meaning don't say anything that you are going to regret later). these are the best two i ever heard because they are so true.
    Don't drink the wine before it's time.
    Never pass up an opportunity to keep your mouth shut.
    if you cant say anthing nice dont say anthing at all.
    ';If you want a clean house every day you have to clean house every day';....which is what my Grandma told me after listening to me b*tch %26amp; moan about always having to clean up after the kids. Truer words have never been spoken :-)
    It's just as easy to love a rich man as a poor man.





    I'm still poor.......
    if you don't know, ask a question...
    That when it comes to prayers - God answers all, just sometimes the answer is NO.
    my grandpa told me long time back ,do good and throw it to the sea
    It is better to be thought a fool than to open your mouth and remove all doubt


    meaning think b4 you speak
    You have to love yourself before you can love anyone else

    If you can choose who you want to be? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?

    what would you be..





    1.) Born in the rich and perfect family and have everything provided for you. Of course, you have a happy life.





    2.) Born in a poor and middle class. Then, working hard to accomplish your goals. Finally, you did accomplish your goals and have a happy life.





    Why?If you can choose who you want to be? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
    one...I already did two!


    Y@YIf you can choose who you want to be? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
    Number 2. It would add meaning to what I have and how I obtained it. It is in the struggle that we see who we are and are able to test our abilities. Our values would be put to the test and we would see them lived out. It would be a life worth living.


    The other is just existing without the need of examination.


    It would have very little meaning, unless you sought out a challenge like Peace Corp. work. It is in the testing and the struggles that you grow as a person. Richer is not better.
    I just want to sit under a palm tree and sip beer.


    Is that too much to ask?
    I would deffinately take number 2. I am currently living that, my family is in financial trouble, etc. But I know I don't want to be the daughter of a rich man. I like to work for and earn what I get ,I don't want to just throw money at someone and get it because I happen to have a stack of green paper with someones face on it.





    I like to work for the things I want, it's just the excitement of getting to it, knowing I accomplished something and that feeling of ';I deserve this, I've worked for it'; is really great. Also rich people are generally rude and self centered.





    I want to be a Marine, then get married to the young man who has my heart and also wants to be a Marine, then leave the Marines, have a family, settle down on a ranch, and have an even bigger family.





    Life is boring if you don't WORK for what you want.





    -S.


    Motto: Get tough or die.
    I would choose to live in a poor or middle class family because you probably appreciate everything thing so much more after you finally ';arrive.';
    Please with your Liberal tricks. Why do you assume that being born into a rich family is bad?, the parents or grandparents had to work hard for that money. I don't fall for trick questions
    i would say 2 because you would probably get more respect in life, and more respect for yourself
    I would choose the second one because i want to work hard for something. It makes you fell good if you work for something. For example: I saved up 250 dollars for my new bed i fell so happy i worked for a good night sleep. Life would be boring if it didnt have its up and downs dont you think? I would hate to be ultra millon air and get wht ever i wanted so i could be a spoiled ***** lol. I like who i am i am middle class and i like it. I hope you liked my opionon and good luck =)
    number 2 because it just makes life so much more challenging, experiencing and fun life works in mysterious ways and you just gota find the ryhthm.Also you can always appreciate what god has gave you and be able to realize how gratefull you are for being alive and healthy rather than being in someone else's position.
    I chose nmber 2 of course. For the middle class and especially for the poor,overcoming the challenges has its sweet rewards. Just keep on moving forward, meeting all the obstacles head on.


    In the end, you';ll earn what some rich people cannot have, even to the point of buying it....that is


    RESPECT!
    lol...are you looking for an answer for a class essay question? sounds like it.
    The more money you have the more problems you have.
    Number 1. I'll tell you why, when you're born, you can have everything and no worry, no parents will argue about bills, you won't have to worry about food on the table. And when you grow up, you won't have to worry about anything, you can make your wife happy, support your kids, have a nice house, make your children happy and a bunch of stuff and always spend time with your kids since you don't have to work.

    What is one piece of advice that was one of the best you鈥檝e ever received?

    to my psychiatrist '; I am a witch that should be burnt at the stake';


    my psychiatrist '; if you are a witch then so am I, they are just wise women demonised by the Catholic church';


    so true it was and a complement to boostWhat is one piece of advice that was one of the best you鈥檝e ever received?
    Always read the manuals on anything you buy from cover to cover. It's an advice that's serve me well over the years.What is one piece of advice that was one of the best you鈥檝e ever received?
    ';yeah, but have you seen the size of her husband?';
    ';DUCK';
    ';If you don't learn from your mistakes, you're not paying attention.'; Oakly Haight.


    Don't trust anybody who says ';trust me.';
    Don't be too easy men wont respect you for it!.
    Never trust the painted ladies.
    When I was in 6th grade, the very first day of science class, my teacher, Mr. Barron came in the classroom and said nothing except, ';Take out a piece of paper and a pencil and draw a picture of a bunny.'; After about 10 minutes he said ';Draw another bunny.'; This went on all class period. At the end of class he put his wastebasket on his desk and told us to throw our bunnies away. We did...a bit puzzled...After we sat back down he said





    ';Let this be the last time in life you do something without knowing why you did it.';





    This advice was something I always remembered, and I have lived by it.
    never let the bast,,,s grind you down
    eat first,payments next, can't pay if you don't eat,,,look everybody straght in the eye%26lt;%26gt;IS%26lt;%26gt;
    make your own way in life and it worked for me
    Everything is and should be decided by logical reasoning. Emotions still follow logic, but they make it one hell of a bumpy ride.
    Hello, If you see a Wet Paint sign believe it.
    If you are going to make a mistake, make it slowly....
    never trust a man whose eyes are too close together
  • rimmel
  • What to do when you are bored to death and snowed in??? any advice??

    Make wild passionate whoopie.What to do when you are bored to death and snowed in??? any advice??
    wacth tv, do something on the computeror when in dout........ readWhat to do when you are bored to death and snowed in??? any advice??
    there are gonna be a lot of babies with a november 12th birthday...
    me find a game on the computer or go for a walk or go vist some one a frined but if i can find a good game on the computer i will play it i play bingo onwww,bingo,com
    Here are some websites that you can try:


    www.bored.com


    www.lazylaces.com


    www.mybrokenleg.com





    *Also, do you have a video camera? Make your own movie or tv show. Try a cooking show or something like that.
    Yes, go have a blast in the snow and quit whining, lifes to short.
    go to emode.com and have some quizes =) they are addictive
    Su-Do-Ku, the Japanese number puzzle.
    umm.. Why not exercise.. everyone else is complaining about how fat they are...or just go all out and spend like two hours ooking a super fancy new meal you've always wantedd to try.. :) yup
    well a good start coming here, thats why i did.
    master bate. over and over, or have phone sex
    Sleep it off.
    Go to Yahoo awnsers and ask question because your bored to people answering questions because their bored.
    I like to watch cartoons.

    Can you give me some advice about social phobia and being a shut in?

    I have social anxiety,and hate to be around people,the more i isolate the more anxiety i get,i cant stand peoples personalities,they all make me nervous and zap my energy,most of the time i wanna isolate until i feel like being social,i dont like most people and only like certain kinds of company.i do not like being in crowds larger then like a few people.My life is miserable,i want friends but at the same time i dont wanna be bothered..Can you give me some advice about social phobia and being a shut in?
    STOP BEING SO SELF-ABSORBED. NOT EVERYTHING IS ABOUT YOU, AND YOU WILL MAKE YOURSELF SUFFER WHEN YOU INSIST ON THINKING THAT IT IS.


    YOUR QUESTION IS SO COMMON (BET YOU DIDN'T CONSIDER THAT) THAT I COULD JUST CUT-AND-PASTE MY RESPONSE IF I WANTED TO (BUT I AM NOT DOOING THAT HERE).


    ALL YOU PEOPLE WHO SUFFER FROM SOCIAL PHOBIAS/SOCIAL ANXIETY ALL THINK YOU ARE THE ONLY ONES WHO FEEL THE WAY YOU DO......


    WHY?


    IT'S BECAUSE YOU ARE SO SELF-ABSORBED AND CONSUMED WITH YOUR OWN INSECURITIES, AND YOU DON'T PAY ATTENTION TO OTHER PEOPLE'S ISSUES.





    THE CURE FOR YOUR FEELING IS TO MAKE YOURSELF INTO AN EXTROVERT. YOU DO THIS BY FORCING YOURSELF TO NOTICE THINGS ABOUT OTHER PEOPLE, AND LET THEM KNOW IT. COMPLIMENTS AND QUESTIONS BUILD RAPPORT WITH PEOPLE. AND THE PEOPLE YOU BUILD RAPPORT WITH TEND TO THINK MORE HIGHLY OF YOU, AND WANT YOU AROUND. YOU WILL FEEL REALLY GOOD WHEN YOU MAKE SOMEONE'S DAY, SIMPLY BY GIVING THEM ATTENTION, FLATTERY, AND SHOWING INTEREST IN THEM.





    YOU JUST HAVE TO TRY IT. IT WORKS. FORGET ABOUT YOUR PROBLEMS FOR A MINUTE. NO ONE CARES. THEY HAVE THEIR OWN PROBLEMS. NOTICE THEIR EFFORT TO LOOK GOOD, SOUND IMPORTANT, OR BE SKILLED. ASK WHAT THEY THINK ABOUT TOPICS.





    PEOPLE ASSUME THAT YOU ARE UNFRIENDLY AND STANDOFFISH, WHEN WHAT YOU REALLY ARE IS SCARED OR INTIMIDATED. DECIDE TO BE THE HERO AND BREAK THE ICE. START THE RAPPORT BUILDING.





    IF YOU NEED MORE IDEAS OR INFO, GO TO THE BOOKSTORE AND LOOK FOR DALE CARNEGIE BOOKS FOR SALESPEOPLE. THEY HAVE TIPS ON RAPPORT BUILDING, INFLUENCING PEOPLE, AND POLITICAL POWER (NO, NOT GOVERNMENT POLITICA).





    ALSO, MAKING ACCOMPLISHMENTS BUILDS SELF ESTEEM. ACHEIVING GOALS, MASTERING SKILLS, LEARNING NEW ONES, AND TEACHING SOMEONE SOMETHING.....





    AND EXERCISE KICK-STARTS SERATONIN PRODUCTION AND RELEASES ENDORPHINS. BOTH HELP YOU FEEL CALMER MENTALLY, MORE ENERGIZED, AND LESS ANXIOUS. YOU DON'T NEED ANY MEDICATIONS.





    YOUR LIFE WILL STAY MISERABLE IF YOU VOLUNTEER TO BE A PROFESSIONAL VICTIM. YOU ARE THE ONLY ONE WHO CAN CHANGE THAT. LOOK AT THIS AS A CHALLENGE TO IMPROVE, OVERCOME, AND SEEK WISDOM.Can you give me some advice about social phobia and being a shut in?
    kinda weird.. coz it seems that you are ';afraid'; on all the things around you... =( too bad..


    well, you can start by going out with your cousins.. or visit them..
    contact your local mental health facility. Therapist, doctors, medication and social workers can help with this
    I first want to say,I empathize,I have similar issues. I don't like most of the people I come in contact with and I wish I could go to a planet/island and isolate myself. I think you should speak to someone professionally,I did. Be calm,it'll be alright. Y.

    Macbook advice - when watching DVDs how do you stop the screen going into sleep mode?

    If your using DVD Player if you enter full screen the screen should not go to sleep.Macbook advice - when watching DVDs how do you stop the screen going into sleep mode?
    goto power options, set idol mode to never

    Don't you ever ask your stylist for advice?

    I have been answering these questions and wonder what kind of realionship do you have with your stylist? I don't ever get asked these questions. It must be that my clients are just greatful for me to do it right. I just wonder don't any of you have a good realionship with your stylist? You should if you don't find one to ask these personal questions. You are suppose to just find someone who can do what you want. Were like a doctorDon't you ever ask your stylist for advice?
    i ask my stylist for advice all the time. shes great and hilarious and she knows what i like and how itll look before she even sits me in the chair.Don't you ever ask your stylist for advice?
    I do not have a stylist. I do everything myself.
    I ask my stylist for life advice. It's important to ask folks who are making a third of your income for life skills. You'll learn alot by what not to do. Think about their choices and do the opposite.

    What advice do you have for a newly single 30-something woman?

    I haven't been on a ';date'; in AGES, am starting over in a new town...and am a little bit on the shy side.


    I really want to find a friend, but I'm just feeling a bit at a loss...What advice do you have for a newly single 30-something woman?
    Enjoy your newly found freedom. Just go on about life and friends and guys will happen naturally. It really shouldn't be something you go out and hunt for.





    Just be outgoing and smile a lot and i'm sure both guys and friends will flock to you :)What advice do you have for a newly single 30-something woman?
    just be yourself . and try not to let the nervousvess show .


    it sounds to me like all you need is a bit of confidence.


    there is always some for everyone and mister right . is just


    waiting to say hello . bon chance
    First things first, Get involved with something that you like to do. If that's rock climbing, do that. If it is biking, do that. You have a much better chance finding someone that you like doing things with if you are doing what you like when you meet.





    Also, don't sleep with anyone on the first date. unless you don't want to have a second one.
    maybe join a class, dance or depending on what u would like to learn . go out to the local clubs and hang out frequently..eventually u will find someone, but if u are newly single then mayb u should concentrate on you and yourself by doing those things you just never got around to doing. we all have them
    someone will come along just lookin like u want the attention..

    401k Advice-if you're under 59 1/2 can you take $$ out for emergencies like ';losing your home?';?

    Would you still have to pay the 10% IRS penalty? Would they give me as much money as you need to pay off your home or do they give you a certain amount at a time?





    Thanks for answering........401k Advice-if you're under 59 1/2 can you take $$ out for emergencies like ';losing your home?';?
    Many 401k plan will allow you to borrow against your 401k.





    This would be a far better option if your plan offers it.401k Advice-if you're under 59 1/2 can you take $$ out for emergencies like ';losing your home?';?
    I know you can take money out without penalties to purchase a home. I don't know about paying off a home you already own. I would check with an accountant in your area or check some free websites.
    If your plan allows for hardship distributions then you can take one to prevent foreclosure or eviction. However, you can only take enough to catch you back up, they won't pay off your home or some to pay ahead. They will give you enough to pay for the tax withholding AND the 10% penalty in addition to the hardship amount. And, it's only if you have that much available. Many plans only allow you access to the funds that you put in, not the matching or profit sharing.





    Answer to second question is yes, you still get hit with the 10% penalty.
    You can take out the money but, you will pay HUGE penalties!


    The amount, you receive will depend on how much you have invested and what it's being used for.
  • rimmel
  • What advice would you give to the generation of 2027?

    Mine would be ';Never get involved with that species called ';boys';...';





    What's yours? What piece of advice would you like to leave for future generations? xWhat advice would you give to the generation of 2027?
    I would tell them, that, although an android with Margaret Thatcher's head and a dinosaur's body is PM and the Daleks rule the Earth with their Slitheen agents, that they can count on me and my sonic screwdriver and maybe Billie Piper to save them even though they are mutants.What advice would you give to the generation of 2027?
    Answer as many questions as you can on here
    my advice - please dont reproduce, we have been selfish enough to bring you into an uncertain life with no proof of any afterlife, please dont inflict the psychological anguish of self-awareness and uncertainty and death upon any more people.
    have fun.
    Get yourself a good education and don't wear hoodies.
    deal with problem at a time and everything will become more simplified...
    I would say ';Be good to yourselves - and each other.'; They won't know I'm ripping off Gerry Springer.
    Life is full of many temptations.............................鈥?br>

    don't miss any of them!!!!!
    just say no
    Do go on yahoo answers you will get additive
    Be nice


    ...It's nice to be nice!





    xx
    Give up and stay drunk